Elopement vs. micro wedding
Elopements and micro weddings are alternative approaches to traditional ceremonies, but they differ in scale, formality, and planning. Couples often grapple with the decision of which term to use or research, so here are some key distinctions between an elopement and a micro wedding:
Scale
While elopements typically involve only the couple getting married, perhaps with their closest relatives or friends (children, parents, best friends, etc.), micro weddings include typically up to 35 guests. Regardless of your choice, whether to elope or have a small wedding, inviting more guests may reduce the intimacy and flexibility of your special day.LocationThis distinction also holds true in terms of location. Elopements can take place in non-traditional settings, such as a scenic mountain top, on a cliff, or on a beach. Micro weddings, on the other hand, typically use smaller venues catering to more intimate gatherings, such as mountain huts, villas, or yacht clubs. The number of guests significantly influences the choice of location, when it comes to accessibility, and having a venue provides the opportunity to plan for inclement weather.FormalityWhile neither a micro wedding nor an elopement is obligated to incorporate traditional wedding elements, such as a ceremony or reception, micro weddings often follow a more structured format, while elopements maintain a spontaneous and flexible nature. Both are focused on celebrating your commitment to each other. Planning
An elopement and a micro wedding can be planned by the couple or a professional planner. With a planner, the process and the day itself become stress-free, relaxed, and effortless. Micro weddings typically involve more vendors than elopements and a planner can help you coordinate all the suppliers involved. You benefit from an expert familiar with the elopement destination who can handle any hiccups that may occur. The ideal planning time for an elopement is between six to eight months, for micro weddings eight months to one year, while for larger weddings the planning process usually is between one to two years.
Here are some examples for elopements and micro weddings:1. Urban Elopement
An urban elopement typically refers to a small, intimate elopement that takes place in an urban or city setting, rather than a traditional wedding venue. In the context of an urban elopement, the couple may choose a location within a city, such as a park, rooftop, city hall, or any other meaningful spot. In this example, the couple chose to elope in Munich. Their day included getting-ready at a five-star hotel, then exploring the city and enjoying a private signature drink in the afternoon at a famous landmark, the Propyläen. The day ended with a ceremony at sunset where they simply exchanged their vows in private. As both of them work for the state opera, of course they had to finish with an amazing dance - what a beautiful, unique day. 2. Hiking Elopement
A hiking elopement takes place in a natural outdoor setting, often amidst mountains, forests, or scenic trails. The ceremony is typically held in a picturesque location like a mountain summit, waterfall, or meadow, accessible by a hike. Hiking elopements appeal to those seeking a unique and adventurous wedding experience, surrounded by the stunning backdrop of nature. Of course, you can choose the difficulty of your hike and there are some stunning locations that are easily accessible via gondolas in the Alps. If you want to avoid the crowds, choose a remote location.3. Beach elopement
A beach elopement is a great way to celebrate your love story if you love the feeling of sand underneath your feet and the rhythmic sound of waves. Attire tends to be casual, sometimes even swimwear. With the ocean as a backdrop, you can keep decorations minimal, allowing the stunning surroundings to take center stage. The beach setting offers excellent photo opportunities and you can choose a sunset or sunrise ceremony, if you want to avoid the crowds.4. Adventure Elopement
While hiking or beach elopements can be adventurous, the emphasis of an adventure elopement is the activity of the day. They incorporate a thrilling experience into your wedding day, maybe because it is already a frequent hobby of the couple or a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. Adventure elopements can include a number of activities, depending on the chosen location. Some examples are rock climbing, cave exploring, kayaking, surfing, zip lining, paragliding or even skydiving. Depending on your fitness level, the options are vast.
5. Destination Micro Wedding
Micro Weddings abroad have become quite popular, as it is easier to fly out a smaller group of guests. Europe offers variety of destinations, which makes it very hard to choose. For example, you can get married in a Tuscan villa, in a castle in Germany, at a yacht club next to a Swiss lake or in a historic town square in the Czech Republic. By incorporating traditional elements from the chosen region, your wedding day feels like you are already starting your honeymoon. So choose a destination that is close to your heart, creating a memorable experience for you and your guests.6. Forest Micro Wedding
Having your intimate ceremony surrounded by the lush trees and the natural beauty of the forest, is a truly magical experience. Depending on the seasons, the celebration continues with a carefully curated table setting underneath the forest canopy, decorated with string lights and natural elements. But even in October, having a ceremony surrounded by the yellow and orange leaves, creates a magical ambiance for your personal vows. There are even some spots where you can legally married in a forest setting.
7. Mountain hut micro wedding
Even with 30 guests, you don’t have to miss out on the beauty of the mountains. By choosing a mountain hut as your wedding location, you can combine the love for nature, breathtaking mountain scenery, and the cozy charm of a secluded alpine retreat. In the summer months, you can plan your ceremony on the terrace outside or a nearby scenic spot. After the ceremony you can enjoy the traditional, hearty alpine cuisine. You can also incorporate a small hike in your day and even when it’s raining, the misty mountains create a stunning backdrop for your wedding pictures.
8. Vineyard Micro Wedding
If you love an excellent bottle of wine, then a vineyard might be the perfect wedding location for you. The ceremony typically takes place among the rows of grapevines, providing a natural and picturesque backdrop for the vows. In the afternoon, you and your guests can enjoy a private vine tasting or a tour through winery facility, followed by an intimate dinner on a terrace. Of course, you can choose a menu that is accompanied by a matching wine list. A vineyard micro wedding offers a perfect blend of elegance and the rustic charm of the country-side, creating an intimate wedding experience.
Conclusion
Despite differences between micro weddings and elopements, the terms can be used interchangeably. Most likely, your elopement day will be a blend of both. For example, elopements can include more than two people, and micro weddings do not necessarily have to take place indoors. Both allow for customization and personalization, reflecting your unique style and preferences.
Ultimately, the choice between an elopement and a micro wedding depends on you, the desired formality, and your vision for the celebration. Whether you choose an elopement or a micro wedding, remember that the day is all about celebrating your love and commitment to each other. Embrace the freedom that comes with these non-traditional weddings and create a day that feels authentically you. Whatever you decide, it will be the perfect choice because it's yours.Need help planning your elopement or micro wedding? Feel free to reach out for advice, support, and guidance throughout the whole planning process. I am here to help you create the perfect day that encapsulates your love story perfectly.